The Difference

Seen this in my newsfeed and thought it was a worthy share because I remember there was a controversy with Alicia Machado’s weight years ago however didn’t know this is where it started.

It’s unfortunate this happened to her and this is why women need to step into their power. When you are seen as weak, men will treat you as a doormat and stomp on you. Not all men. Some. Mostly men in power. You need to step UP and confront it.

Was it right for her to be called Ms.Piggy? No. Not at all however she is Miss Universe and is now a model and gaining weight is not something Miss Universe does. It’s probably against their contract or something as they are now the face and body of the world. I believe she knew gaining weight would cause controversy but not in such a way as to be bullied by Trump. 

There is a difference between Machado and Kelly when it comes to Trump bullying them and it’s that Kelly stood up and fired back with grace and an apology was due by Trump. Didn’t see that happening but this is the thing that I’ve studied, experienced and know when it comes to POWER…

Men don’t respect weak. simple.

If an ounce of weakness is revealed your done! To be respected by men in Power you will have to stand in your Power! I’m not saying you have to be masculine but you must be STRONG!

I’ve worked with some of the baddest, meanest powerful men the past 10 years at the ports of Los Angeles/Long Beach that would make you cringe and working in a male dominant job that’s always about the hustle it has taught me to have THICK SKIN!

There is an old saying they would say and that is: “If you have no common sense you have no business working out here” meaning you won’t make it, you won’t survive. Not only do you have to be a hustler but you have to be street smart and alert and stand your ground. No “oops” in that job. An oops will land you in the hospital or cementary.

So I say this not because I am proud of working out there but because that is where I was taught to have thick skin, Leadership surviving skills, and stand up for myself and for others if I see injustice.

The only reason I’ve overcome my bullies, stalkers and will confront them is because I CAN! I’m friendly, funny, sexy, loving, giving and all those traits but don’t think for a second you can pull the wool over my eyes. I’m visionary. I can see.

There is a reason why I attract POWERFUL People and it’s not because they think they can get away with anything. I’ve earned my position.

Read this before visiting an auto body shop

Do not make mistakes

Auto body repairs can cost a lot. Having this in mind it’s important for you to know what to do next after you have been involved in a car accident and specially if the driver who caused the accident was you. First, check the deductible set on your insurance policy, most people have it set at $1000 and you may have bring it up to $1500 a tactic that save you a good monthly payment cost but we ready to pay that amount if it’s your fault. Second, understand how they work.

Your auto insurance agent may direct you to shops approved by them which can be ok, but be aware that those shops may use cheaper parts on your repair to save them money. 3- Get more than just one estimate – Take good notes of what the auto body and collision company says and what type of repairs they will realize. Then after that visit or call 5 or 6 shops and ask them what the cost will be for the same work. 4- Know the expectation on parts, many companies that sell insurance want a repair with less expensive parts, instead of using original parts which the same one may cost them 3 times if not 4 times the cost of that compared to an after market one. 5- Check the reputation – check what other customers are saying about the shop, check online business reviews like bbb that rates companies. 6- Are you the owner of an European car? If so, take your car to that one that specializes only in these types of cars.